Dream About Affair

If you dream about having an affair, it refer to an unstable or unfulfilling relationship in your real life, points to a beautiful soul. You not feel fully satisfied with your partner or feel neglected by them, you feel that you have not made any significant accomplishments.

It is also possible that you are bored of your usual routine and are looking for something more adventurous, states your inability to make contact with something or someone. A dream about an affair mean that you need a break from your stressful life or routine, a symbol for a sticky situation that you are involved in.

However, the dream also be a warning, suggests raw energy, power, aggression and fertility. You should ensure that you do not make any hasty decisions that negatively affect your current lifestyle, hints feelings of emptiness. You should consider how an affair affect your current relationship and your life, sadly an alert for disappointments in some aspect of your life.

Another possible interpretation: dreaming of an affair reflect an unfulfilled longing for emotional or sexual intimacy, a harbinger for creative freedom. You feel that your needs are not being adequately met and you are longing for more adventure and passion in your life, a hint for peace of mind and tranquility.

There is no universal interpretation, points to the end of some cycle or behavior. It is up to you to decide the meaning of your dream and whether it indicate a change in your life, a clue for a difficult situation that you need to avoid.

A warning to be cautious before starting an affair that affect your relationship and life, an evidence for your ideal notions of perfection. An expression of unmet emotional or sexual needs, suggests missed or denied opportunities. The desire for Variety and adventure in your life, a harbinger for a lack of motivation or inspiration.

Regardless of what the dream means, it an opportunity to reflect on the stability and fulfillment of your current relationship or life, a message for insight, creativity and inspiration.

Dreaming about having an affair a representation of your emotions and desires, and not necessarily indicative of an actual desire to cheat on your partner, a hint for hard work and dedication. This dream indicate a lack of fulfillment in your current relationship or a sense of feeling trapped, also this dream about the consequences of your words. It is essential to examine your emotions and take a closer look at your relationship with your partner, and determine if there are any underlying issues that need to be addressed, you need to reject or discard an aspect of your life that is revolting.

Seeing yourself having an affair with someone in your dreams a warning or advice about a potential temptation in your life, you are being manipulated by a situation or by someone. It representing feelings of uncertainty about your current relationship or unfulfilled emotional, sexual, or psychological needs, hints your lack of understanding in some area of your life.

In Christianity, this dream signify that you are seeking for comfort or happiness outside of your relationship with God, signals a turn of events. It is a warning that you need to align yourself properly with your faith and strengthen your relationship with your Creator, refers to exploring the unknown.

In some cultures, this dream symbolizes abundance, prosperity, and good fortune, whereas in others, it signify personal struggles or conflicts, unfulfilled desires.

Psychologically, dreaming of an affair denote a desire for a deeper connection with yourself, stands for an urgency in some matter. You seeking more satisfaction, passion, or emotional stability in your life, points at your high level of self-confidence. This dream prompt you to explore your emotions, past experiences, and hidden desires, means your ability to move forward in life with confidence.

Reflect on your emotions and feelings and determine if you are happy in your current relationship, represents your desire to be to others. Communicate with your partner and address any issues that affecting your relationship, your emotional energy and expressiveness. Reconnect with your spirituality or faith if you feel disconnected from them, you may be yielding or surrendering some aspect of your self. Explore your inner self - this through therapy, meditation, or simply taking some time for yourself to engage in activities that bring you joy, signals your yield to authority.

Remember, dreaming about an affair does not necessarily mean that you will be unfaithful to your partner physically, a premonition for your renewed religious faith and commitment. Instead, this dream has a symbolic meaning that should urge you to examine your life and make improvements where necessary, a portent for wealth, good luck, harmony, creativity and bliss.

Dreaming of an affair a sign of a deep-seated desire for something more in your life, an omen for an awkward, dull or socially inept person. It represent a longing for excitement, passion, and connection that you feel is missing from your current relationship or life situation, expresses feelings of emptiness. The dream also be a reflection of feelings of guilt or shame, as it is often associated with feelings of betrayal and dishonesty, points at your bad temper, negative anger.

The dream also be a sign that you are feeling neglected or unfulfilled in your current relationship, stands for feelings of vulnerability or a fragile state in your life. It a sign that you are seeking more attention, appreciation, and intimacy than what you are currently receiving, represents a rocky end to some journey. Alternatively, it a sign that you are feeling disconnected from your partner and need to reconnect in order to feel satisfied and fulfilled, a clue for comfort, safety, homeliness, protection, or new opportunities.

Dreaming of an affair also be symbolic of something else entirely, stands for a lack of creativity, power or strength. It represent a desire for change or growth in some area of your life, signifies sudden awareness of the power you hold. It also be a sign that you are feeling overwhelmed by the responsibilities and commitments in your life and need to take some time for yourself to relax and recharge, a symbol for sorrow and longing.

Tony Crisp Interpretation

Example: I was on board a pleasure cruiser with my wife. As I stood on a high deck I looked down and saw her sitting below with very tight knickers on and nothing else. As a man walked towards her the knickers came off or slipped down.

The man was sexually aroused and started attempting to penetrate her. She only put up a token resistance, mewing a bit, but not fighting him off. I rushed towards them and kicked him off’ (Andrew P). In this dream Andrew’s fear of his wife’s desire for another man is being expressed, but the dream really depicts Andrew’s feelings of sexual inadequacy. Adultery dreams may also express release of sexual feelings; desire for another partner, desire for one’s partner to have sex with someone else.

See sex in dreams; last example in dark.

African This may refer to one’s own feelings about col­oured people or racial prejudices; Africa may have been the birthplace for the human race. In dreams we still use primi­tive Africans or Australian aborigines to represent our own natural inner life.

See aboriginal; black people; native.

Versatile - Anonymous Interpretation

Gives gender-specific: When a woman dreams of an affair, it is likely that she has registered that connection before becoming consciously aware of it.

A man will tend to be more physically attracted before dreaming of an affair. Men tend to be better at analyzing systems while women tend to be better at reading the emotions of other people. They have an increased ability to bond and be connected to others.

For further clarification you might like to read the entries for family and people.

myjellybean Interpretation

If you dream of cheating on your boyfriend, it means you will be entangled in a situation that is not in your best interest, perhaps even illegal. You may have behaved in a way that compromised your values.

To dream that you are cheating with your boyfriend’s friend means you are feeling neglected by your boyfriend.

To dream that your sweetie is cheating on you, means you are scared of being abandoned. You may feel some lack of attention in the relationship.

Pamela Ball Interpretation

We need to come to terms with our own sexual needs and desires for excitement and stimulation.

Dreaming of an affair allows us to release such feelings. We may feci the need to do something naughty or something which means we have to take emotional risks.

We could be actively seeking emotional satisfaction in a way that is unacceptable in our waking lives.

We arc seeking an integration of opposite polarities male/female, drive/receptivity, good/bad.

Versatile - Anonymous Interpretation

Psychological / emotional perspective: We could be actively seeking emotional satisfaction in a way that is unacceptable in our waking lives. In dreams, to be having an affair with someone we don’t know suggests that we should perhaps reassess our own needs and desires.

If the affair is with someone we know but would not normally consider in that light we are perhaps looking for different sorts of satisfaction.

Versatile - Anonymous Interpretation

Material aspects: We need to come to terms with our own sexual needs and desires for excitement and stimulation.

Dreaming of an affair allows us to release such feelings. We may feel the need to do something naughty or something that means we have to take emotional risks.

Versatile - Anonymous Interpretation

Dreaming of an affair shows we are seeking to integrate opposite polarities within ourselves: male / female, drive / receptivity, good / bad. Such integration and an understanding of the dynamics leads to wholeness and an ability to access hidden aspects of our personality.

Joan Seaman - Tom Philbin Interpretation

If having one, one is not completely happy in one’s current romantic relationship.

Vincent Wienand Interpretation

1. Sharing your spouse with work, church, or a hobby. Also see Adultery. Hos. 2:5.

Betty Bethards Interpretation

See Adultery; Sexual Intercourse.

Dr. Mıchael Lennox Interpretation

See Infidelity.

Marsha Trimble Dunstan Interpretation

in an intimate agreement with (see Genesis 4:1; Ezekiel 16:8); breaking of intimate trust (see Exodus 2:21; Joshua 23:12; Malachi 2:11); break in relationship (see Daniel 11:17; Matthew 19:12); see General/Sex; see General/Marriage.

Ian Wallace Interpretation

Opportunity to deal with any temporary loss of confidence in my own attractiveness by restoring my complete faith in my talents

Mary Summer Interpretation

symbolizes lack of loyalty

Tony Crisp Interpretation

May depict feelings about infidelity; betrayal; failure; longing for love; feeling alone in a relationship. In general, dreaming of a pleasant affair is a way of enjoying or exercising the wonderful feelings of falling in love and sharing emotional and sexual pleasure. Having an affair in a dream may help keep alive and active the ability to love and be loved if there is not sufficient stimulus in waking life.

Tony Crisp Interpretation

lover At a straightforward level, the dreamt-of lover is an expression of all the emotional longing and unexpressed sensual desires we have. In the enjoyment or pain we feel in the dream, the lover is an enactment in the virtual reality of our dreams, of the perhaps secret desires we have, the unmet needs, the fears and pains we have in intimacy. As an archetypal image, it holds in it all the massive racial and cultural forces that attract and bind two people together—all the degrees and levels of maturity in love—and also all the attraction and difficulties we face in meeting our growth as a person toward wholeness. Because the image connects with all our personal and transpersonal experience of love, it may well hold in it the trauma of childhood abuse, which may work out in a series of dreams or fantasies regarding the lover. The lover is also a connection with the life beyond the boundaries of personal self. See anima or animus above; lover under roles; sex and dreams.

Tony Crisp Interpretation

lover If one’s lover: your present feelings or fears about the relationship. If dream lover, someone else: your sexual desires or needs; sexuality that is either not accepted or not expressed in present relationship. See lover under archetypes. magician Sometimes the self—the magical abilities the unconscious has that are seldom tapped; one’s potential. Black magician: the negative or selfish ways we might use our power or internal insights and wisdom; the shadow or unacknowledged side of self. masseur Healing influence, loosening up of rigid attitudes, tensions, preconceptions, repressions. matador This might show sexual tensions, or the killing of the fundamental drives.

Common Source

If you are dreaming of your partner having an affair might suggest insecurities or communication issues. Affairs become metaphoric in dreams when the partner may have given up on aspects of the relationship or is giving attention to something else; needs and desires are being neglected.