If you dreamed that you were talking to your ex: Your love life may settle down a bit, you may need to take a leadership role in some issues or be the one who initiates the events. To see that you are talking to your ex-lover in your dream refers to things that are still in your subconscious, troubled and stressful days and being unhappy. To see that you are talking to your ex-lover in your dream indicates that you still have things on your mind and that you want to get together with your ex-lover.