If you have seen shoes in the grave in your dream: Insecurity may arise in matters concerning your income or your job, your insistence on your own wishes and your oppressive speech may cause tensions in your family environment. To see shoes in a grave in a dream symbolizes a great distress. It is a symbol of a calamity that will come to your house, dark clouds circling around you, that you will go through a difficult phase and that all family members will be affected by this situation.