If you have dreamed of playing with a lighter: It may be better to try to learn all the facts by keeping your own opinions to yourself without sharing too much about your private life. You should take your responsibilities seriously. To play with a lighter in a dream refers to a person who likes to cause trouble and creates unrest in the family and to be in trouble. Playing with a lighter in a dream means bad developments and loss of peace, withdrawing from life, living a life within yourself, not trusting anyone.