A dream in which one loses cutlery have different meanings, represents how you feel about something or it stands for to you.
The cutlery symbolizes control over the food and the environment, signifies your struggle for power and empowerment. Losing cutlery in a dream indicate a feeling of losing control of your life or a feeling that something is getting out of hand, hints your anxieties about your ability to accomplish some demanding task or perform in some situation.
Cutlery is often associated with sharing meals and is therefore a symbol of relationships, symbolises your feelings. Losing cutlery in a dream indicate that you feel like you are losing a relationship in your life, be it a romantic relationship, a friendship, or a family dynamic, an indication for your emotions.