Dreams often confuse us and make us feel like they have a deeper meaning, a metaphor for male elegance, flamboyant flair.
If you are in a happy marriage and you had a dream about your husband, it mean that you are satisfied with your relationship and that your subconscious is a reflection of your love and connection with him, suggests ability to ask for help when you need it.
On the other hand, it mean that your subconscious wants to draw your attention to certain aspects of your relationship, a premonition for longevity, tenacity and renewal. Maybe it's time to work out old conflicts or find new ways to strengthen the relationship, a sign for your desires for freedom.
However, if you had a dream about an unfaithful husband or a husband you don't remember, it mean that you are feeling insecure or uncomfortable, points to how well you carry ability to reach out to others. You have trouble trusting him or feeling safe when he's not around, a symbol for a creative project in the making.
In general, your husband represents stability, security and affection in dream symbolism, sadly a warning for loss of vitality, loss of faith in of self-confidence. However, your emotional response to your husband in the dream point to something deeper and help you better understand your relationship, symbolises the undeveloped masculine aspect of your own self.
If you are unsure about the meaning of your dream, it helpful to make notes about what happened and how it made you feel, suggests emotions that are dragging you down. This information help you figure out what your subconscious is trying to tell you, a portent for a person in your life who means much to you.
Ultimately, the interpretation of dreams is a highly personal process and only you decide what meaning suits you best, refers to sentimentality and nostalgia.
General: Seeing your husband in your dream signifies your deep emotional connection to him, your desire for security and comfort, and the nurturing aspect of your relationship, indicates the connection of your spirit to the earth, air, fire and water.
By Symbols: The presence of your husband in your dream portrays his characteristics, traits, and values that you missing or yearning for in your life, a sign for the closeness you share with your friend. Alternatively, dreaming of your deceased husband indicate your longing for his presence and comfort, or the need to process your grief and move on, a symbol for the link between the conscious and subconscious.
By Religions/Beliefs: In Hinduism, dreaming of your husband signifies your relationship with your partner, your happiness and love for each other, symbolises friends who will use their to your advantage. In Christianity, dreaming of your husband refer to the biblical interpretation of a husband as the head of the household and his role as a protector and provider, points at war, power.
By Cultures: In some cultures, dreaming of your husband indicate your concern for his health or well-being, points at your level of power in some situation of your life. In others, it a sign of good fortune or a happy marriage, a harbinger for a problem or issue that you need to pinpoint.
Psychologically: Dreaming of your husband reveal your hidden desires, fears, and anxieties related to your relationship, a sign for feelings of emptiness. It a manifestation of your subconscious mind trying to communicate with you about your emotional needs, your concerns, or unresolved issues with your significant other, unfortunately an alert for abundance, plentitude, fertility and prosperity.
Suggestions: If you are troubled by your dream about your husband, it is essential to analyze your feelings, discuss your concerns with your partner, and seek professional help if needed, a clue for the you are portraying to others in your life. If you had a pleasant dream about your husband, you should appreciate and relish the love, support, and companionship that you have in your life, there is a situation in your life that has not yet been resolved.
Generally, dreaming of your husband symbolize security, stability, and comfort, means your inability to commit. It also represent your feelings about your relationship with your husband, such as love, admiration, and respect, represents rejuvenation and renewal. Alternatively, dreaming of your husband reflect feelings of anxiety or worry about his wellbeing or the state of your relationship, you are trying to keep negative forces at bay.
If you dream that your husband is in danger or is hurt in some way, it symbolize a fear that something bad will happen to him or to your relationship, hints wealth and prominence. If you dream that he is cheating on you or leaving you, it reflect feelings of insecurity in the relationship, stands for in your current situation. On the other hand, if you dream that he is being loving and supportive towards you, it represent feelings of contentment and security, a signal for your hopes, desires and secrets.
Example: ‘My recurring dream—some disaster is happening. I try to contact the police or my husband. Can never contact either. I try ringing 999 again and again and can feel terror, and sometimes dreadful anger or complete panic. I cry, I scream and shout and never get through! Recently I have stopped trying to contact my husband. I managed once to reach him but he said he was too busy and I would have to deal with it myself. I woke in a furious temper with him and kicked him while he was still asleep’ (Mrs GS).
The husband here depicts Mrs S’s feelings of not being able to get through’ to her man. This is a common female dream theme, possibly arising from the husband not daring to express emotion or meet his panner with his own feelings.
For Mrs S this is an emergency. Although the dream dramatises it, there is still real frustration, anger, and a break in marital communications.
Example: There were three of us. My husband, a male friend and 1, all nding small white enamel bikes. My husband proceeded slowly, first, with his back to us. Then my friend followed. Suddenly my friend ahead of me turned and gazed fully at me. He gave a glonous smile which lit up the whole of his face. I felt a great sense of well-being surge through me’ (Joan B).
The triangle: the example shows typical flow of feeling towards another male.
The other male here depicts
Joan’s desire to be attractive to other men. This is a danger signal unless one fully acknowledges ihe impulse.
Example: ‘I was with my husband and our three children. About 2 or 3 yards to our right stood my husband’s first wife —she died about a year before I first met him. I remember feeling she no longer minded me being with him, so I put my arms around him from the back, and felt more secure and comfortable with him’ (Mrs NS).
The first wife: the dreamer is now feeling easier about her husband’s first relationship.
The first wife represents her sense of competing for her husband’s affections, even though his ‘first woman’ was dead.
Example: ‘My dead husband came into my bedroom and got into bed with me to make love to me. I was not afraid. But owing to his sexual appetites during my married life with him I was horrified, and resisted him with all my might. On waking I felt weak and exhausted.
The last time he came to me I responded to him and he never came back again. This happened three times.
The last time I don’t think it was a dream. I was not asleep. I think it was his ghost’ (GL). Dead husband: in any experience of an apparently psychic nature, we must always remember the unconscious is a great dramatist. It can create the drama of a dream in moments. In doing so it makes our inner feelings into apparently real people and objects outside us. While asleep we lightly dismiss this amazing process as a dream’. When it happens while our eyes are open or we are near waking, for some reason we call it a ghost or psychic event. Yet the dream process is obviously capable of creating total body sensations, emotions, full visual impressions, vocalisation—what else is a dream? On the other hand, the dream process is not dealing in pointless imaginations. Many women tend to believe they have little sexual drive, so it is easier for GL to see her drive in the form of her husband. But of course, her husband may also depict how she felt about sex in connection with his ‘sexual appetites’.
It is a general rule, however, that our dream process will dramatise into a past life, or a psychic’ experience, emotions linked with trauma or sexual drive which we find difficult to meet in the present.
Example: ‘I dreamt many times I lost my husband, such as not being able to find the car park where he was waiting, and seeing him go off in the distance. I wake in a panic to find him next to me in bed. These dreams persisted, and then he died quite suddenly. He was perfectly healthy at the time of the dreams and I wonder if it was a premonition of me really losing him’ (Mrs AD). Cannot find husband: many middle aged women dream of ‘losing’ their husband while out with him, perhaps shopping, or walking in a town somewhere. Sometimes the dream ponrays him actually killed. Mrs AD wonders if her dream was a premonition.
It is more likely a form of practising the loss, so it does not come as such a shock.
The greatest shocks occur when we have never even considered the event—such as a young child losing its mother, an event it has never practised, not even in fantasy, so has no inbuilt shock absorbers. As most of us know, men tend to die before women, and this information is in the mind of middle-aged married women. Mrs AD may have unconsciously observed slight changes in her husband’s body and behaviour, and therefore readied herself.
Other woman’s husband: one’s own husband, feelings about that man, desire for a non-committed relationship with less responsibility.
If he mistreats and upbraids you for unfaithfulness, you will hold his regard and confidence, but other worries will ensue and you are warned to be more discreet in receiving attention from men.
If you see him dead, disappointment and sorrow will envelop you.
To see him pale and careworn, sickness will tax you heavily, as some of the family will linger in bed for a time.
To see him gay and handsome, your home will be filled with happiness and bright prospects will be yours.
If he is sick, you will be mistreated by him and he will be unfaithful.
To dream that he is in love with another woman, he will soon tire of his present surroundings and seek pleasure elsewhere.
To be in love with another woman’s husband in your dreams, denotes that you are not happily married, or that you are not happy unmarried, but the chances for happiness are doubtful.
For an unmarried woman to dream that she has a husband, denotes that she is wanting in the graces which men most admire.
To see your husband depart from you, and as he recedes from you he grows larger, inharmonious surroundings will prevent immediate congeniality.
If disagreeable conclusions are avoided, harmony will be reinstated.
For a woman to dream she sees her husband in a compromising position with an unsuspected party, denotes she will have trouble through the indiscretion of friends.
If she dreams that he is killed while with another woman, and a scandal ensues, she will be in danger of separating from her husband or losing property. Unfavorable conditions follow this dream, though the evil is often exaggerated.
If doubts about validity and intimacy are not properly resolved in her waking life, they will appear in dreams about the loss or death of her husband. They may also be projected onto other women’s husbands in dreams.
If your husband goes missing in your dream or you can’t find him while out with him, your unconscious may be referring to the well-known statistic that most men die before women.
If your husband is dead in both your dream and in your waking life, this refers to the memories you have shared with him.
If another woman’s husband appears, this may refer to a desire for a relationship outside your current one.
If you are having sex with your husband in your dream, this can be a wonderful indicator of how you are feeling about your sexual and emotional relationship with him.
If your first husband appears in your dreams, this represents nostalgia for the past, or more obliquely, competition for your current husband.
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If you are an unmarried man dreaming of being a husband, then you are processing your aspirations/hopes/fears of one day being married.
If you are a married man, then this dream can represent your assimilation of the pressure of being the breadwinner.
If you are a married woman, this can also be your assimilation of your idealized husband versus the day to day reality, expectations and demands that you have of your actual husband.
If you are an unmarried woman, this dream may be your hope, fantasy, or “dream” of what your future husband will be.
To dream of having a husband when you are single points to relationships in general. Most girls look for their father’s personality or traits while choosing their life partners. Those traits often represent the male side of a girl’s character. All this is represented when a girl dreams of a husband with all those traits she admires or dreads.
If you dream of your real-life husband, your dream represents your emotions around this relationship. Look up other symbols, or feelings you had, in the dream for further meaning.
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If you dreamed of being married when- you aren’t it signifies a serious lovers’ quarrel and/or a broken relationship.
If you fall in love with another woman’s husband, it indicates that you are growing vicious.
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beating his wife: are laying yourself open for criticism with your behavior.
caressing: wil be advantageously married within a year.
divorcing: if you can relieve the bitterness, a reconciliation is possible.
calming one’s: wil have a violent family quarrel.
checking on: unfitted for position of loyal married person.
good, having a: a meaningful relationship wil develop and last.
losing a, by death: important and very beneficial events to come.
love with another, is in: be prepared for the worst by taking care of your needs.
marrying a second: mistreatment; the foibles of first marriage tarnish the second.
nagging his wife: events occur over which you have no control; al ow her that.
neglecting your: you are not being supported by your husband.
of a, when unmarried: are not ready to commit to marriage; or no one wil commit to you?
others flirting with your: wil live together al your life, yet he seeks pleasure elsewhere.
someone else’s, liking: immediate congeniality impossible with emotional baggage.
wanting to divorce your: must control your passions until harmony is reinstated.
wife nagging her: circumstances wil improve after a visit with the doctor.